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« Reply #1110 on: Jun 6th, 2007, 9:55pm »

Heh...look, this guy who I thought was just my friend (he was SOOO hitting on me, but I didn't even notice, cuz I was too busy with one of his best friends--who I was madly in love with) anyways...he asked me out, and I spazzed, not wanting to hurt his feelings, and...it was a lot harder to say no than I thought...I spent that WHOLE NIGHT, and the next night OBSESSING over what I could have, what I SHOULD have said, and then what I could say to him to break up without hurting his feelings....I couldn't even tell him I didn't want to go out...I only got as far as "um, listen, chris..." and then I started STUTTERING and Um-ing...HE was the one who finally said "You know, if it's not working out, you can tell me." He was really dissapointed, and I felt REALLY bad, but the point is, he was really cool about it, and we're still really good friends.
Sooooo....I'm really bad at giving advice, cuz I usually screw everything up....but, trust me when I say it's a HUGE relief to have it done...and if he really likes you, he'll probably be a lot cooler about it than you imagine...I guess, if I'm putting myself in the guys' shoes...it's always better to have you as a good friend than not know you. Right?

I know you'll do whatever is right for you, Bre.
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« Reply #1111 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 01:40am »

Heheh, yeah thanks. I haven't talked to him in a bit, so when I do I'm gonna try and think of a way to say it makes me feel a little uncomfortable when he tells me he loves me... I mean, he can't. He doesn't know me well enough. And yeah, he's a great guy and I do like him. I'm not as worried as I was... I think it'll be okay.
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« Reply #1112 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 04:22am »

I fancy my best friend. We have been friends for so long and we get on really well. He is such the sweetest guy and we have the same sense of humour. I don't know what to do. he is really shy about these things but i think he might fancy someone else. I don't know what to do??
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« Reply #1113 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 04:35am »

^Aww, Rach. Well, I'm the last person who should be giving advice about boys, but I think maybe you should sorta casually ask him something like "so... are you interested in anyone these days?" and see what he says. You never know. Best friends always make great couples because you already know you get on well and can count on each other to be there.
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« Reply #1114 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 11:23am »

Bre, I value your advice. Your a good friend, don't worry yourself hun.

I might have to ask him casually. I am worried it could ruin our relationship and that is what is stopping me doing anything. I would never want to loose him as a friend. University worries me so much because I worry he will make new friends and forget about me. That is how much I love him!!!!!!!!

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« Reply #1115 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 4:09pm »

Well guys, guess it's not working out. Send him a message about 2 days ago and he still hasn't replied while I can see he's online on that site. I just gotta get him off my mind, he's not interessted.
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« Reply #1116 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 7:27pm »

I've picked up smoking...
At first it was only at parties like once a month, but there's been alot of partying lately with graduation and all... and suddenly a while back I started doing it in my freetime with friends, like at school too... So now I've been smoking every day for like 3 months...
This is bad...
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« Reply #1117 on: Jun 9th, 2007, 01:54am »

Rach, I know how you feel... I fell mad for a dear friend of mine in my junior year and I didn't say anything about it to him because I was worried of ruining our friendship. It made me physically ill (not exaggerating) to think of not having him in my life. (Although I'd imagine that was due to my OCD). He was a year ahead of me and I worried he'd forget about me at Uni too. This is why I say I'm the last person to be giving advice in this area... But I hope everything works out for you. But you shouldn't worry about him forgetting about you once you're off at Uni... real friends don't forget each other no matter how far apart they are or how long it's been since the last visit.

Jacky, just because he hasn't replied that doesn't mean he's ignoring you. We all know how wonky myspace can be, and I personally know that as recently as 2-3 days ago the messages were acting weird, as I had replied to a couple but the didn't send even though it said they were sent. I didn't even know they weren't sent till I saw they weren't in my outbox. Don't give up so easily, sweetie! You're awesome and this guy would be lucky to have you even as just a friend.
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« Reply #1118 on: Jun 9th, 2007, 05:47am »

Bre, are you still friends with him?? it does worry me everyday, not just about Sam but about all my friends. I have been through my life with not having that many friends because I realised a friend of mine was stirring stuff about me and causing people to fall out with me. Well i ditched her waaaay to late but this year I have made some really awesome friends. True friends, you know. I used to stay in alot but I am always going to the cinema, going out. Like tonight I am going round to my mates and there will be a few of us there. I can't wait. I tell anyone that if there is a mate that is constantly bitching about other people to you then they are doing it about you to someone else. And she was and I don't miss it at all, me and my friends never bitch.

Myspace, like Bre said, can be a danger hazard Jacky. send him a text and see what he does. Don't worry sometimes people don't get messages. I sent my friend one and she never receieved it.

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« Reply #1119 on: Jun 9th, 2007, 08:55am »

Yeah, I am still friends with him. We don't talk as much as we did when he lived in town, but we are still friends. I couldn't take not having him as a friend. I know what you mean about friends like that... odds are if they're taking crap about some of your other friends they're doing it when you're not around. People like that bug.
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It's the one thing on my mind
Music's got control
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I just wanna play my music"
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« Reply #1120 on: Jun 9th, 2007, 12:33pm »

Thanks Bre and Rach. I don't think I'm that awesome, but thanks for the complement Bre. It's not on myspace though, it's on a dutch site like myspace. But I don't know, I guess I'll just have to wait a few days till I get a message (he didn't sent any message while he was online to anyone, so maybe there is a little spark of hope), and otherwise I'll sent him one again. Let's make him nuts And in about 6 weeks I'm going to Greece, so I'm gonna hook up with a Greek haha. Just kidding!
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« Reply #1121 on: Jun 20th, 2007, 02:21am »

Sometimes I jump in when I should keep my mouth shut, then I feel kinda stupid.
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« Reply #1122 on: Jun 20th, 2007, 03:13am »

^My grandma once told me not to ever feel sorry for speaking my mind. I think she had a point.
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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #1123 on: Jun 20th, 2007, 03:18am »

Don't ever feel sorry for being yourself. I think thats along the same lines bre At least thats what I believe I miss you bb!! I have been SWAMPED with work!!!
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« Reply #1124 on: Jun 20th, 2007, 03:41am »

Aww, Charrisa I missed you... I just commented yer myspace, lol

Anyways... this is what I was gonna post earlier... but I got sidetracked because I'm a nitwit.

The other day I went to hang out with my friend and I was really excited about it. We were gonna do a little job hunting and see a movie after. But instead we spent less than 2 hours sitting in her front room while she fixed her hair in anticipation of a call from her friend-with-benefits. Then said friend-with-benefits came over and picked me, dumped me off at my house, so they could go fool around. (Even though they see each other and do they stuff like everyday and I like never see anyone...). So I felt like complete crap for quite a while... I felt so unwanted and kinda like dying, but I've been feeling better. Suddenly it almost completely left my mind.

But the thing I wish I had to do over was that I didn't say shit to her about how it hurt like I don't even know what to be dumped off so she could fool around with someone who's too embarassed to consider her her girlfriend.

That's why I hadn't been on here or myspace much for a few days... didn't feel like there was a point to it...
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"Music's in my soul
I can hear it everyday, everynight
It's the one thing on my mind
Music's got control
And I'm never letting go, no no
I just wanna play my music"
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