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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #1185 on: Nov 8th, 2007, 05:34am »

on Nov 8th, 2007, 03:33am, StartledKitten wrote:
Thanks Sarah, you're very sweet. I truly appreciate it
6 days late so far... I'm NEVER late.



oh no, thats not too good hopefully its just a false alarm. ive never been in your position but i can imagine how your feeling, and your very brave to confess that on here, i wouldnt know how to cope if it was me.
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« Reply #1186 on: Nov 8th, 2007, 10:59am »

it must be so scary for you at the moment. I take it there is a chance you could be pregnant then? I won't try and compare what you must be going through because it won't even come close. Keep us updated hun. xx


on Nov 7th, 2007, 4:22pm, Sarah! wrote:


Speaking of which...I got into this HUGE debate about abortion, and now this one girl like won't even talk to me cuz I'm pro choice...



On that subject I can't believe that the girl won't even talk to you. How narrowminded is that?? Narrowmindedness irritates me sooooo much!!! I am kinda mixed on the subject. I would consider myself pro-choice not pro-abortion. And I think that is a distinguishing feature that some pro-life believers can't see sometimes. I am a Christian and I know the views of the church however, in England it was a Christian man who brought in the abortion act in turn having it legalised. I feel that we as women should have the choice, we have been controlled too much by men in the past. I don't know the law in America but I feel that it should be brought down to 24 weeks from 28 weeks as the cut off point.

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« Reply #1187 on: Nov 10th, 2007, 2:34pm »

on Nov 8th, 2007, 03:33am, StartledKitten wrote:
Thanks Sarah, you're very sweet. I truly appreciate it
6 days late so far... I'm NEVER late.

Btw, I've also had plenty of discussions about abortions. It's a tricky subject..


No problem!

I agree, it is a tricky subject...and I feel like...if you're (like a person, not YOU) brave enough to go through with it, then that's extremely admirable, but not everyone is, so I think everyone at least deserves the CHOICE.


Could you maybe take a test, so you wouldn't have to just wait around for it?
Would that help?
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« Reply #1188 on: Nov 10th, 2007, 2:39pm »

And I completely agree, Rach...if I was ever put in that position, I've no idea what I would do!! I don't think I'd be brave enough to have a baby, but I'd hate living with myself....
But before 24 weeks...the baby isn't really a BABY yet. I agree that the cut off point should be brought down.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, StartledKitten! (Sorry....forget your name...I seem to be forgetting a lot these days )
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« Reply #1189 on: Nov 10th, 2007, 9:14pm »

28 weeks is the cut off? wow thats late and i dont need the comment police on me here AGAIN BUT sara it is a baby Before 24 weeks in my opinion at 17 weeks I KNEW he was a boy( sex is determine at 17-18 weeks for the "tail" becomes the sex) and was feeling the kicking at 20 so who ever told you that before 24 wasnt realy a baby is VERY sadly wrong!

**at to point out im Pro-choice as well when used in respect...not to be abused as birth control!
but no goverment or protesters should tell anyone what to do with their bodies!
Im not attacking you but it is a baby after the tail is off at 17 weeks( i actuly believe once it is Conceived for i felt sooo much love when i took the pee test on the 3rd day of my missed period and it was Positive! )
i know he did at 20 for i just looked in my baby journal i kept and wrote the date when i first felt the kick! and it wasnt GAS!
sorry your friend wont speak to you BUT it just tells you who your friends are !
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« Reply #1190 on: Nov 11th, 2007, 5:58pm »

Hmm...well, you would know better than me!

Right...well, if I felt the baby kicking, and knew the sex and everything, I'd never be able to get an abortion. It's really just about how developed the baby is in my opinion. As far as legal things go, I mean...I've heard of some people having the baby killed as it's being born, which actually horrifies me. But if it doesn't FEEL anything yet...I agree with what you're saying, it should NOT be used as birth control, but sometimes...people make mistakes.

But I think of people who've been raped, or who would die if they gave birth, and I think it's just cruel that other people think they have the right to make them keep the baby, you know?
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« Reply #1191 on: Nov 11th, 2007, 6:29pm »

on Nov 11th, 2007, 5:58pm, Sarah! wrote:
Hmm...well, you would know better than me!

Right...well, if I felt the baby kicking, and knew the sex and everything, I'd never be able to get an abortion. It's really just about how developed the baby is in my opinion. As far as legal things go, I mean...I've heard of some people having the baby killed as it's being born, which actually horrifies me. But if it doesn't FEEL anything yet...I agree with what you're saying, it should NOT be used as birth control, but sometimes...people make mistakes.

But I think of people who've been raped, or who would die if they gave birth, and I think it's just cruel that other people think they have the right to make them keep the baby, you know?


First I wanna strech i wasnt attacking you! I was just pointing out some Facts i learned when i first became predo! i wanted to know the sex right away to plan everthing I am SUCH a Planner its pathetic!!
anyways I agree with you . I believe in Pro choice to a point! not for abortion cause it "has" to be done! BUT if a rape accord or someones heath is at risk with along the baby i think.....LOL...it is a touchy subject
i do understand the Pro-life ppl to a point as well IT is murder! and there is other ways to deal with it...adoption .... BUT IT IS US womans right to make a CHOICE! not some ToeRag protester holding a Home made Sign calling some one a "killer" and NOt no goverment either!

IF the woman is not able to cope with her issues she should be able to decide what is right!
i am prepared to tell my SONS future g/f IF she does end up with a child and doesnt want it PLEASE concider me first to Keep it and not toss it away!BUT if she cant live knowing i have it or anyone then fine! but DO IT EARLY, VERY VERY Early for ONCE you feel that first kick....its not cute to turn away for the baby is "talking" to you! i think they should have the cut off at the point when the tail is still intacted!!

I THINK 28 is way tooooooooo late even 24 ! for as i remember we are carring for 36 weeks? i know i carried for only 31 for he was taken c-section for heath reasons on Both of us!

i think 15 to 16 is best!!! but i know thats wishful thinking
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« Reply #1192 on: Nov 11th, 2007, 8:15pm »

so this isnt a confession as much as it is an apology.
If you dont really know me, i joined this site in the summer of 2006 and i made many online friends here who have homestly helped me through hard times. I owe them so much and i love these ppl dearly.
i told them that school was coming up and that i would keep in touch with them and i would try my best to go online whenever i had time. I never came online as much as i possibly could have and these friends were glad to see that i was online. I don't think I stayed faithful to my promise. This is pretty much an apology to those friends that I have lost contact with when they were vital to me. I honestly miss them and fear we will never have the same friendship at the same caliber.
I'm sorry for not keeping in touch.

Also seeing that this IS a confession thread I guess I will insert at least one confession..
recently my boyfriend, Paul, and I celebrated our 7 month. He left this weekend for Vermont to visit a college (Norwich).
I cheated on him.
I feel like such an awful person.. I would say that I DO care about him and I DO love him but obviously that would be a lie. I am so immoral that I cannot believe the strength of my actions; it doesn't feel like I'm a bad person. I am such a bad boyfriend.
he comes back today. I won't see him til Saturday though. I don't think I can face him..
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« Reply #1193 on: Nov 11th, 2007, 8:30pm »

^my answer is mostly in my pm to you but I admit I fired it off quickly to catch you online. No need to apologize. Many here have come and gone and come back. We can't always fit forums into our spare time, no matter what our intentions. If school and school related matters plus personal contact with friends takes up more time, it is not a bad thing and I for one, would not take your absence from here as a lie (of course, I see you elsewhere from time to time).

I could speak to the desires and wants and hopes you refer to and the difficulty of being true to a boyfriend, especially if you are not sure it is the right one, but it would be too long to go over here. Sometimes you have to meet many to find the right one BUT you have to be careful what you do, you know what I mean.

In the end the right one may be one you end up going back to. Anyway, I do hope to see you more, especially at the game board.

*runs off to game board*
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« Reply #1194 on: Nov 11th, 2007, 8:46pm »

on Nov 11th, 2007, 6:29pm, Lostzoe wrote:
First I wanna strech i wasnt attacking you! I was just pointing out some Facts i learned when i first became predo! i wanted to know the sex right away to plan everthing I am SUCH a Planner its pathetic!!



Haha, I know I know, don't worry about it!!
I'm 14, do you think I know about babies! YOU'RE the one who had the son, right? So you would definetely be more experienced in the baby making area.
I know you wouldn't attack me. Trust me, I'd say something if I thought you were!

And I agree, obviously the sooner the better, I just think it's a little sick how late some states let it go on for....while I am pro-choice, I am not pro-murder. Someone in my cousin's town got an abortion in the 8th month!! That's CRAZY!

Honestly, from what we learned in health (that's as fara as my baby knowledge goes) I think the date should be 18 weeks...but, since we can't change EVERYTHING at once, I think petitioning to get it lowered by a month or two would be fantastic.
But still...just because I wouldn't be able to get an abortion if, say, I felt a kick, or if I like...connected, doesn't mean it would be the same for others, and I think a woman should have the choice. As far as morals go, I would also consult with my boyfriend, if it was from my boyfriend, or whatever the cse was, but you can't FORCE someone to do that....this is alal hypothetical of course...and now I'm rambling.

Right. Before I say more stupid stuff, maybe I should jsut stop.

How did I even get into this Hahaha...I can be so opinionated sometimes.
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« Reply #1195 on: Nov 13th, 2007, 05:51am »

Well, you know Zoe, a lot of the debate about abortion is about when a fetus becomes a baby. And really, that all comes down to opinion. I think the tough thing about discussing abortion is the fact that it's so complicated. *sigh* But that's what it is, I guess...

StartledKitten, I hope it's just a false alarm. If not, I'm here, ok?

Lewis, (glad to see you hear... ILY!) cheating doesn't make you a bad person, but it does make you a bad boyfriend. Maybe you need to rethink this relationship?

As for me... I confess that I always procrastinate with my school work because I hate school. Secretly I don't give a damn about any of it. Half the time I wish I didn't even have to go.
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« Reply #1196 on: Nov 13th, 2007, 06:54am »

on Nov 13th, 2007, 05:51am, BreDigsTheJakeness wrote:


As for me... I confess that I always procrastinate with my school work because I hate school. Secretly I don't give a damn about any of it. Half the time I wish I didn't even have to go.


Well I feel like that sometimes but I know that I want to be in education for as long as i possibly can because the world work is hell of a lot harder
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« Reply #1197 on: Nov 13th, 2007, 07:24am »

StartledKitten it Could be ( i have no clue how old you are nor i care) a Blockage! I remember a FEW times in my preteens( 16-17) It stoped and i thought i was! ( yes i had sex) and it wasnt I was blocked and The OBGYN gave me a shot in my BUtt!

it is a matter of Opinion BUT when i Felt a kick and KNOW a sex and the Goverment Charges PPL with2 counts of murder if you kill a pregant woman WE have a human!

BUT I strongy Believe ITS our Choice what to do!!!
BUT do it early! IT HAS FEELINGS!
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« Reply #1198 on: Nov 13th, 2007, 6:26pm »

Oooh happy day! False alarm. Thank you sweet lord Jesus. I had finally decided to buy a test, was too scared to do it for like a week... I had even planned to get up early to go buy one incase I changed my mind later, don't know why... but, that very day I woke up with cramps! Just as if my body was like "Ok ok missy, you're not pregnant, here's your period." Don't think cramps ever made me so happy, lmao. Sorry for the details, but I feel like I'm walking on clouds right now! I was convinced I was positive and walked around with nightmares how and especially if I was gonna tell my parents or even the guy, who's not my boyfriend and I only know briefly. Don't think I was gonna tell him though btw, can't really remember, I was too worried. But now, I just wanna kiss every person I see and thank God for not having me go though this!

And thanks for the support I see you left me you guys! And I see you started quite a discussion while I was away worrying my soul out! Hehe.
I've always been pro abortion, but the big question is when do you concider it as a human, a baby?
After my lill experience I realize you should atleast see to find out as soon as possible if you're pregnant or not, both for sparing yourself the anxiety (it's nervwrecking...) and for the fetus' sake.

And Lostzoe, I'm 19, and I have no idea what so ever why I was this late. But now I seriously don't care, I'm just happy.

Sooo, I think we've gone a teeny tiny bit off topic. How come that always happens? lol. Someone hurry and post a confession
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« Reply #1199 on: Nov 13th, 2007, 7:18pm »

YAY!!! Hey, that's amazing!!!
I don't know what the right thing to say in this situation is...congrats?? Haha....


Okay, here's a confession:
My friends think I am absolutely PSYCHOTIC, and can't understand my utter and complete OBSESSION with QAF....really, I sometimes sort of hate myself for falling so much in love with a TV SHOW...I mean, I should honestly get a life!! But I've never felt so...connected to fictional characters before....and it's so GOOD...like so....honest, and raw.
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