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« Reply #45 on: May 30th, 2006, 2:30pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 2:07pm, JG wrote:
When i was 8 my Grandadd sexually abused me, and i didn't tell my parents till i was 16 years old.


It must have taken a lot of courage to tell your parents that, well done! Even though I don't now you, i'm proud of you!

I hope you are okay about it now.

I'm the same age as you and if something like that ever happened to me I don't know if I would have the guts to tell my parents, so I really rate you for that.

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« Reply #46 on: May 30th, 2006, 2:44pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 2:30pm, Nikkita wrote:
It must have taken a lot of courage to tell your parents that, well done! Even though I don't now you, i'm proud of you!

I hope you are okay about it now.

I'm the same age as you and if something like that ever happened to me I don't know if I would have the guts to tell my parents, so I really rate you for that.

Thank you, my gosh i was so nervous, my mum wasn't mad because she understood why i hadn't told her, mostly due to my age. My dad on the other hand, almost killed my Granddad literally.
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« Reply #47 on: May 30th, 2006, 3:22pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 2:07pm, JG wrote:
When i was 8 my Grandadd sexually abused me, and i didn't tell my parents till i was 16 years old.


i was the same age when i neighbour did sort of the same thing to me, my brain couldnt take it and i told my mum and dad after 2 days. i thought it was my fault so when i told my mum i was telling her i had something wrong. I know how you feel, no one should ever go through those experiences. Well done for telling your parents, it must ahve been harder for you as it was your grandad and you were related.

i found counsilling helped. I dont really tell my friends about it. it think i have told about 3 people and they are close friends. i find it easier to speak to lads about it actaully, dont no why.
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« Reply #48 on: May 30th, 2006, 5:19pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 1:48pm, ErryJ wrote:
Holy Crap! I was gonna post some something about faking a seizure once (I'm epileptic) but after reading that, it seems so trivial now.

Please try focus on the positives & keep that window shut! If you want to talk further feel free to send me a message.

Keep well! xxxxxxxx




Thanks for the kind words *hugs*... Im too strong to do anything stupid, thank God, but damn I feel awful about the whole thing. I keep my finger crossed for something to happen, fast, mainly a good job, that would give me confidence again in what I decided to do in my life but still its not easy, and I know that in this case, I cant help it, Im depressed. Its pretty pathetic, but I hope it will change soon Again thank you for message

And JG, I cant imagine how terrible it must have been, you were very brave and very right to tell it at one point, Im proud of you
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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #49 on: May 30th, 2006, 9:30pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 2:07pm, JG wrote:
When i was 8 my Grandadd sexually abused me, and i didn't tell my parents till i was 16 years old.

That's really hard...thanks to share this crude secrect i know that it can be hard to tell someone...i'm proud of you!
life can show you that you can try to erase bad memories with happy experiences and peoples who support you....

you can count on me
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« Reply #50 on: May 30th, 2006, 11:51pm »

on May 30th, 2006, 1:10pm, MarieMJS wrote:
Im currently very depressed because my life is going nowhere. I cant find a fucking job because there arent many projects going on, I'm all alone in Paris because most of my friends are in other countries or leaving for some courses/whatever, I feel ugly, and I just want to throw myself by the window because of how unuseful I am.

Kill me now

Aww, I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. And I know how it feels to think that you're unuseful, but trust me when I say you're not. Lat summer when my grandpa died, I considered "accidently" falling out of a 4th story window... several times. But I didn't, because the worst of that passed. And it will for you too. I know I can't really say anything to change how you feel, but just know that we're all here.

And JG: It takes a lot of courage to go on after having something so negative happen to you, and it's especially hard to admit it to family and friends. You're stronger than I'd be in your situation.
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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #51 on: May 31st, 2006, 04:31am »

I do have counselling now, and it helps in fact i've been in counselling since 1yr and 4 months ago. I think im leaving this friday because it's interfering with my work.
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« Reply #52 on: May 31st, 2006, 4:59pm »

Umm...I've made out with my best friend, who's also a girl. I havent told anybody this exept her cuz she was kinda there.

I find comfort in talking to God every night. It's not really praying, it's more like sharing things with him that I don't share with anyone else.
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« Reply #53 on: May 31st, 2006, 7:56pm »

I always cry, when I see BBM, or just commercial of this movie in TV.
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« Reply #54 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 10:38am »

I speak to angels.
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« Reply #55 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 10:43am »

Do you get any response?..only i watched a T.V programme and they say if they are around a single white feather falls near you..im in need of one right now.
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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #56 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 10:52am »

on Jun 1st, 2006, 10:43am, Em wrote:
Do you get any response?..only i watched a T.V programme and they say if they are around a single white feather falls near you..im in need of one right now.



Awwww Em, you sound so sad! Whats up?
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« Reply #57 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 10:55am »

on Jun 1st, 2006, 10:52am, ErryJ wrote:
Awwww Em, you sound so sad! Whats up?



Just stress really..I'll be OK.. thanks for asking.
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« Reply #58 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 2:57pm »

on May 31st, 2006, 7:16pm, Bruinsmama wrote:
My best friend's Husband fucked me all night last night while she was in the next room.


Hey Bruinsmama, aren't you getting a little carried away? Are you going for shock factor or what?
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« Reply #59 on: Jun 1st, 2006, 3:01pm »

no shock factor but sorry if I worded it poorly
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