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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #765 on: Nov 14th, 2006, 07:18am »

on Nov 14th, 2006, 02:28am, BreDigsTheJakeness wrote:
I'm bi as well and sometimes I have a hard time with it. Hardly anyone knows about me either... like 3 or 4 friends (not counting online friends). But I have trouble picturing myself ending up with a girl as someone to share my life with... I can picture me dating a girl and even being with a girl physically, but for some reason I can't picture myself ending up with a girl. I'd like to be more open to that idea but I've never even dated a girl. I've done stuff with a girl but we didn't date, so I dunno.

I don't suppose I helped any... but at least now you don't have to feel like you're the only one kinda confused about this.

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Thank you so much
You know that happens? that the people understand that someone can be homosexual, nowadays already it is not so catastrophic as it was before (for many people), on the other hand people do not understand the bisexuality . They doesn't understand that men and women could attract you. It is it. I do my life, and nowadays I am not with somebody, I suppose that if one day I'll return to fall in love with another woman, I will already see what I will do. I have to look to myself , because life is four days and we don't know what can happen. Nevertheless, It hurt to see people do not understand it and more if they are of the same famíly.
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« Reply #766 on: Nov 14th, 2006, 08:04am »

Speaking of homosexuality...
My confession: I dreamt I had sex with one of my best female friends...
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« Reply #767 on: Nov 14th, 2006, 5:08pm »

on Nov 13th, 2006, 4:57pm, lluna wrote:
My confession is that...I am bisexual. Almost nobody knows it, only my more close friends. The men attract me and much but I do not want to share my life with them. I fell very strange. It is as if was afraid of living with a man. Probably because the sexual relations with them are never completely safisfactory, but yes with women. My before couple was a girl and I was very happy with her, but we were very far one of other and the relation was cooling, but as a pair and in general in everything, we were very nice.

This is very difficult, because I do not know what to do. I don't know if I have to look for a man or a woman. I am confused, the truth.

Honey, don't be confused. I'm bi and it took me a while to come to terms with it, but I'm happy with myself now, only two of my friends know but they accept me for it.

I know how you feel though, because I can't imagine myself 'settling down' with a woman. It just seems... not strange, but different. The sexual relations I sadly can't identify with, as I've never been with a girl, but I can sure as hell imagine it

My opinion is: do what feels right to you. If your instinct is telling you to got for a guy, go for it. If it's telling you to go for a girl, go for it. If it's telling you to wait and give it some time, go for it! Love takes time to develop and you'll know in your heart when you've found the right someone. *hugs*

on Nov 14th, 2006, 08:04am, StartledKitten wrote:
Speaking of homosexuality...
My confession: I dreamt I had sex with one of my best female friends...

Don't worry about that hon That happens to me all the time, except for most of mine, I'm awake. *giggles*
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« Reply #768 on: Nov 14th, 2006, 6:35pm »

My friend is pregnant and I am trying to get skinnier as she gets fatter.
I know that is awful but that is my motivation lately, and I am getting kinda nutsy about it.Isn't that really awful?
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Re: Confesssions
« Reply #769 on: Nov 14th, 2006, 7:03pm »

on Nov 14th, 2006, 07:18am, lluna wrote:
Thank you so much
You know that happens? that the people understand that someone can be homosexual, nowadays already it is not so catastrophic as it was before (for many people), on the other hand people do not understand the bisexuality . They doesn't understand that men and women could attract you. It is it. I do my life, and nowadays I am not with somebody, I suppose that if one day I'll return to fall in love with another woman, I will already see what I will do. I have to look to myself , because life is four days and we don't know what can happen. Nevertheless, It hurt to see people do not understand it and more if they are of the same famíly.

I know what you mean about it being har that some people don't understand. Like my mom. She's really understanding to gay people... we have several family friends that are gay and she, in general, has no problem with homosexuality. She just doesn't get being bi... she doesn't understand that you can't just pick. That's why I haven't told her... I'm anticipating many loooong "have you decided" themed conversations and I've got enough crap going on to avoid that for a while at least. Ugh.

Oh and StartledKitten, don't feel bad. I've had that happen before. It's no big deal.
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« Reply #770 on: Nov 17th, 2006, 12:33pm »

I have feelings for my tutor at college. I know nothing will ever happen because he's 18 years older then me. He looks about 28 though. He's 34. Im almost 17. He's the sweetest person ever. I don't know what to do. I don't stalk him or anything. I just don't know how to make the feelings go away.
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« Reply #771 on: Nov 17th, 2006, 1:45pm »

on Nov 14th, 2006, 7:03pm, BreDigsTheJakeness wrote:
I know what you mean about it being har that some people don't understand. Like my mom. She's really understanding to gay people... we have several family friends that are gay and she, in general, has no problem with homosexuality. She just doesn't get being bi... she doesn't understand that you can't just pick. That's why I haven't told her... I'm anticipating many loooong "have you decided" themed conversations and I've got enough crap going on to avoid that for a while at least. Ugh.



It's difficult!!! I wish all were easier!
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« Reply #772 on: Nov 17th, 2006, 4:56pm »

I have a confession, similar to another one someone else made a while back: I was molested when I was ten and never told anyone untill last week.

I'm also 15 and have a crush on my Chemistry teacher, in his 30's.
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« Reply #773 on: Nov 18th, 2006, 3:20pm »

My confession is that I get bullied at school, but i try and shake it off.
this is the first time ive told anyone.
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« Reply #774 on: Nov 18th, 2006, 3:50pm »

on Nov 18th, 2006, 3:20pm, a10 wrote:
My confession is that I get bullied at school, but i try and shake it off.
this is the first time ive told anyone.


Who's bullying you? Is it a certain person? I hope things get better for you.
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« Reply #775 on: Nov 18th, 2006, 5:31pm »

on Nov 18th, 2006, 3:20pm, a10 wrote:
My confession is that I get bullied at school, but i try and shake it off.
this is the first time ive told anyone.

hang in there, I hope it gets better soon
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« Reply #776 on: Nov 18th, 2006, 6:55pm »

Honey, can't you tell your Mum, or a councellor at school. It's horrible for you, I hope it gets better for you soon.
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« Reply #777 on: Nov 19th, 2006, 04:55am »

My confession:
I really want to not live here anymore. Like I just wanna run away. I want someone to come and rescue me from this crap because everything sucks here. Right now I'm hungry because we have no food and I'm freezing because the gas copmpany hasn't come to relight our thingy so we can run the heat. Argh.
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« Reply #778 on: Nov 19th, 2006, 12:31pm »

on Nov 18th, 2006, 6:55pm, Dottie wrote:
Honey, can't you tell your Mum, or a councellor at school. It's horrible for you, I hope it gets better for you soon.


Im Still wondering what to do, Thankfuly i dont get physicaly bullied, only mentaly. Its usualy one particular person but now one of my so called friends is going along with it so he can be "cool" ... anyways im not telling the school because they pretty much act like bullying doesnt exist, I remember one time i heard some ass saying to the head-teacher that a girl said that she was bullying her, and the teacher said that the girl was just trying to get attention when she really was getting bullied. so i have no faith in my school.
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« Reply #779 on: Nov 19th, 2006, 2:54pm »

on Nov 17th, 2006, 4:56pm, epitomeofinnocence wrote:
I have a confession, similar to another one someone else made a while back: I was molested when I was ten and never told anyone untill last week.

I'm also 15 and have a crush on my Chemistry teacher, in his 30's.


I know exactly how you feel. Someone did the same sort of thing to me when I was 8. He touched me in places that aren't meant to be touched, well not by him. he was my neighbour. I will only say that about it because it still pains me so much and has effected my life ever since. Some people are just sick. Good on you for telling someone. I cracked under the pressure of it two days later. I couldn't hack it, my mum knew there was something wrong. I don't know how you lasted for 5 years. Do you feel better for telling someone? I had to have councelling for it. You can always pm me if you want to talk.

And about your chemistry teacher. I had a crush on mine last year for the whole year and even now when I see him around school my heart goes, lol. I love the geek sheek look!!!!!


on Nov 18th, 2006, 3:20pm, a10 wrote:
My confession is that I get bullied at school, but i try and shake it off.
this is the first time ive told anyone.


mental bullying is the worse kind and I know what you said about your school but you have to tell a teacher. I was being bullied very badly for the past 3 months. I only told my mum but I told her not to tell anyone. I was getting horrible text messages, verbal abuse and emails. It eventually got too much and I told a teacher. I didn't go before because I thought it would get worse and not better but the world didn't crash on top of me and it got better immediately and that was a month ago. Not a peak has been heard from him since.

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