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« Reply #975 on: Feb 10th, 2007, 8:41pm »

on Feb 10th, 2007, 4:49pm, mrs.jacknasty wrote:
Thanks, DenisA

And Rach, maybe the guys who think you're hot are just not saying anything, because they're afraid if you think they like you, you'll reject them. And I think guys also feel the need to impress their friends by liking the stereotypical-type of pretty. (ie big boobs, skinny, blonde...) They might think you're gorgeous, but want to seem cool infront of everyone else. They'll get over it, I'm sure.

Most guys talk the same talk and like the same things as much from fear of rejection than anything else, especially teenage boys. Been there, done that!
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« Reply #976 on: Feb 11th, 2007, 09:58am »

Sometimes, I wish I could take a break from my life .. and go to California or Hawaii and just chill. *dreams*
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« Reply #977 on: Feb 11th, 2007, 4:27pm »

Yea I guess and those guys aren't always the best to be with. Just have to wait for the right guy to come along and in the mean time might as well have some fun!!

And Julie I sometimes feel like a break too. Just away from everything!!!!!!

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« Reply #978 on: Feb 12th, 2007, 6:47pm »

^I almost always feel like I need a break from my life. But I think I'm losing it anyways.

And Rach, don't you worry... you'll find the right guy. A good guy, a nice guy.
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« Reply #979 on: Feb 12th, 2007, 7:16pm »

My friend cut himself. He said it was the first and only time, and I believe him. I talked to him about it, and gave him as much support as I could on the first day, but I don't think he wants to talk about it anymore, so we don't.
But I'm still scared....
And I don't know what to do.
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« Reply #980 on: Feb 12th, 2007, 9:50pm »

on Feb 12th, 2007, 7:16pm, mrs.jacknasty wrote:
My friend cut himself. He said it was the first and only time, and I believe him. I talked to him about it, and gave him as much support as I could on the first day, but I don't think he wants to talk about it anymore, so we don't.
But I'm still scared....
And I don't know what to do.

Who else knows? Parent? Teacher? Friend? Anyone? Someone else needs to know, just in case it isn't just once or isn't over. Tough thing to do but tell someone if you must.
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« Reply #981 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 03:33am »

on Feb 12th, 2007, 7:16pm, mrs.jacknasty wrote:
My friend cut himself. He said it was the first and only time, and I believe him. I talked to him about it, and gave him as much support as I could on the first day, but I don't think he wants to talk about it anymore, so we don't.
But I'm still scared....
And I don't know what to do.


Aww, I know how you feel hun! My brother did the same 2 weeks ago. It's a feeling you can't explain and you don't know what to do. If you want to talk I'm here
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« Reply #982 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 3:20pm »

Rich: Yeah. A couple of his friends know, one of them is my friend too, thank GOD. I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't been able to talk to Laura about it. We discussed if we should tell someone, but he flipped out when she said she was going to, and he promised he wouldn't do it again, so we're just like, Aiight, we'll always be here to talk if you need it. He hasn't done it again, but still...
It's been nagging at me, cuz I'm afraid I'm going to become like the "best friend" you read about in magazines, or in those movies Health teachers show you who are like sobbing like, I thought it was all over until he DIED, and I could have done something! And then Katie Couric will come on and shake her head and click her tounge....Oh God. I don't want to betray his trust, but I don't know...

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« Reply #983 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 8:35pm »

I feel so unwanted. None of my friend talk to me much anymore (not even online friends). My parents are... well, I've talked about them both a lot before. And plus, tomorrow is stupid Valentine's Day and I've been single since about when dinosaurs walked the earth. Part of me hates my life right now so much I want to cry or scream or both... another part of me wants to keep on trying to act like living in isolation doesn't bother me, even though I haven't been covering it up very well lately. I feel kinda like everyone thinks I'm not important enough to make plans with, or even just have a conversation with me without wanting something out of me. I also feel like everyone else's problems are more important to me... my mom doesn't care that I can't stand another moment of my life the way it is because she's always thinking about what's going on with her coworkers and friends and things. I'm just... I dunno, I'm tired.
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« Reply #984 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 8:46pm »

Oh, Gosh, Bre. I'm sorry. I TOTALLY get what you're saying though. I've been feeling EXHAUSTED lately, just from like...Life! It's hard.
But you're so strong, and everybody at IHJ is here for you. And, I learned from my fellow Jake-Stalkers in Italy that the 15th is a day for celebration of the single. Go us!! You're probably just single because you haven't found anyone as wonderful as you yet. You will, though.
If you stick through it, I promise I will too, and then we can stick through together!
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« Reply #985 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 9:16pm »

^Thanks hun. I'm trying so hard to stick in there because there really isn't any other option... I feel like half the time the world is sitting perfectly still while I'm standing in my room turning around in circles. And the other half the time it feels like the whole world is spinning at top speed and I'm desperately trying to hang on. And I know that makes no sense, but to me it does. I don't even really know how to describe what I feel, but I guess everyone feels kinda like that at times.
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It's the one thing on my mind
Music's got control
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« Reply #986 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 9:20pm »

^ That makes TOTAL sense.
And there ARE other options. There are so many awful things you could be doing to yourself right now that I don't even want to THINK about, but just the fact that you're NOT is amazing!
My cousin almost committed suicide, and it was one of the scariest things I've ever been through.
It takes a lot of guts to just stick through stuff.
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« Reply #987 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 9:41pm »

The way I see it, the options are sticking through and giving up. I really don't want to give up, but sometimes it's so hard not to. I try so hard to be brave.
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It's the one thing on my mind
Music's got control
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I just wanna play my music"
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« Reply #988 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 10:15pm »

Bre: You are not in isolation because no matter what else you are doing you are also here with us. You have friends here and you always seem to know what to say when others are looking for help or advice or just a nice word. All the regulars here know you as the nice person you are and of course, you can all vent here. We'll listen. Don't forget you can PM, too.
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« Reply #989 on: Feb 13th, 2007, 10:27pm »

^Thanks love. Really means a lot to me. I'm just sorta going through something right now and I dpn't even really know what. Well, I have a good idea but I don't understand it. *sigh*

You guys are so wonderful... best
Valentines a girl could ask for!
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"Music's in my soul
I can hear it everyday, everynight
It's the one thing on my mind
Music's got control
And I'm never letting go, no no
I just wanna play my music"
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