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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #120 on: Oct 5th, 2006, 5:28pm »

on Oct 5th, 2006, 4:35pm, Nikkita wrote:
I feel like shit today...I really feel worthless and inadequate. I feel really ugly and disgusting and I dont think I deserve anything that I have...my friends, my room, anything. Someone so pathetic and repulsive like me isn't worth that time....I really cant stand the days when I feel like this, which is most of the time.


I have those days too. But you know what, you're NOT worthless! Don't ever think that about yourself! You're more than you think! You deserve your friends, just like they deserve you. You deserve everything. You aren't pathetic en repulsive girl! To me you seem like a sweet and lovely girl! I know it's not easy sometimes, but life's worth you! Cheer up, hope you feel better soon. Remember we're here!

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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #121 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 4:22pm »

Today I called my mom and she seemed really upset and I asked her what was wrong and she told me that grandma who lives in Peru has had been having mini strokes. No one knew about it until she got a MRI a couple of weeks ago and now she has to be taken to a nuerologist SOON. It's so sad b/c my grandma is everything to my mom and she is an inspiration to me. She lived in the mountains of Peru with 5 children. She had no home, money or job. She had to fend for herself and did anything for her children. Now she has her own house and lives in a good part of Lima, Peru. She strived to be where she is today and that inspired my mother to come to the US and make a better life for herself. I know I can't do anything.. but I dont want my mom to be so upset. She's crying and I dont know what to do. I cant help but cry myself because the last time I saw her I didn't even get to say goodbye.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #122 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 4:28pm »

I'm sorry, Ally. It's so difficult when you feel helpless and there's nothing you can do. But your grandmother knows how you feel - it's one of those terrible things that you rarely get the chance to say goodbye to people you love - and your mum will feel stronger having you around to lean on - you don't need to say anything to her. I'm thinking of you, x K
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #123 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 4:33pm »

Thanks sweetie... it's hard to keep myself balanced... school, life and whats going on with selfish people here on IHJ. It's taking a toll on me .
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #124 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 4:40pm »

Im really sorry to hear that your grandma isnt very well, at least they have now found out a reason and so hpoefully can help her, i hope that everything works out okay for you.

I feel so sad that running this site is upsetting you, you do such a wonderful job and you should be able to enjoy it. I know its easy to say and sounds pathetic but try to keep your chin up, take care
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #125 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 4:53pm »

on Oct 30th, 2006, 4:33pm, xoaLLyxo wrote:
Thanks sweetie... it's hard to keep myself balanced... school, life and whats going on with selfish people here on IHJ. It's taking a toll on me .


I'm not surprised it's taking its toll on you! I've lost my patience with them too - there's the odd thread now I just won't visit - but they'll get bored and then we can all get back to what we do best - adoring and supporting Jake. And you do it better than any of us, Ally, you do such good things here, on top of school and home worries, and I wish I could make it easier for you. It'll get better and be fun again (after all, we're in it for the long haul). A lot of us care for you very much
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #126 on: Oct 30th, 2006, 5:23pm »

on Oct 30th, 2006, 4:22pm, xoaLLyxo wrote:
Today I called my mom and she seemed really upset and I asked her what was wrong and she told me that grandma who lives in Peru has had been having mini strokes. No one knew about it until she got a MRI a couple of weeks ago and now she has to be taken to a nuerologist SOON. It's so sad b/c my grandma is everything to my mom and she is an inspiration to me. She lived in the mountains of Peru with 5 children. She had no home, money or job. She had to fend for herself and did anything for her children. Now she has her own house and lives in a good part of Lima, Peru. She strived to be where she is today and that inspired my mother to come to the US and make a better life for herself. I know I can't do anything.. but I dont want my mom to be so upset. She's crying and I dont know what to do. I cant help but cry myself because the last time I saw her I didn't even get to say goodbye.


OMG... i suppose its just coincidence but i only found out today that my gradfather has been taken into hospital again cause he's been having mini strokes...I'm realy so sorry about you grandma, she sounds like a realy great person, one of those that makes a difference in todays world.I realy do understand the helpless feeling of not being able to do anything.Just keep your chin up...and just ignore any selfish people here at IHJ, its realy the last thing you should be worrying about ... I do hope things get better for you soon
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #127 on: Oct 31st, 2006, 12:18am »

Sorry Ally I hope your grandmother gets better and you and your mother feel better. I know exactly how you feel and its horrible, but dont worry theres other people out there who feel like you and who care. I just hope everything goes good for oyou and your family.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #128 on: Oct 31st, 2006, 5:32pm »

huh...aLLy , I know exactly what you feel honey, really... except my grandmother used to live with us, precisely, she offered us ( my mother, my 2 brothers, my sister an I ) her house & we were present, I mean, we saw her going more & more sick, it was really bad for my mother because my grandmother helped us & shared everything with us when my parents got divorced & the day she went away, I thought we couldn't live without her, but she's still present, in our hearts..

She left in 2001& there is not a day without me thinking about her...I don't want to make you feel more sad with my little story but all I want to say to you is that you've got to show to you're mother that you are a strong & intelligent girl & all I can wish you is that your grandmother get better soon
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #129 on: Nov 1st, 2006, 5:09pm »

My boyfriend is being an idiot and I can't stand it. He wouldn't even look at me today, and when I said I'd missed him, all he could say was "....Ok." I don't want to finish it so quick but I may have to. Two weeks, what sort of pathetic twat am I?
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #130 on: Nov 1st, 2006, 5:13pm »

on Nov 1st, 2006, 5:09pm, Ellie wrote:
My boyfriend is being an idiot and I can't stand it. He wouldn't even look at me today, and when I said I'd missed him, all he could say was "....Ok." I don't want to finish it so quick but I may have to. Two weeks, what sort of pathetic twat am I?



You're not pathetic at all hun. From what you're saying, HE sounds like the twat, no offence. It's just the way most teenage boys are...stupid. Commitment issues. It really pisses me off....maybe you could sit down with him privatly outside of school (sixth form...whatever) and have a chat? If he still doesn't respond, then maybe you do need to end it.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #131 on: Nov 1st, 2006, 5:59pm »

on Nov 1st, 2006, 5:13pm, Nikkita wrote:
You're not pathetic at all hun. From what you're saying, HE sounds like the twat, no offence. It's just the way most teenage boys are...stupid. Commitment issues. It really pisses me off....maybe you could sit down with him privatly outside of school (sixth form...whatever) and have a chat? If he still doesn't respond, then maybe you do need to end it.

Thanks sweetheart. *hugs* None taken, he IS a twat. Prime example of the commitment issues: his longest relationship has been a week. Not much hope for me, is there?
I want to, but I don't dare. I'm chicken like that. I'll have to try, I guess. Thanks for your help hun, it means a lot. *cuddles*
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #132 on: Nov 1st, 2006, 8:22pm »

on Jun 27th, 2006, 01:48am, Dippy wrote:
GAWH!! I am pretty depressed too, I seriously live online...there is nothing to do where I live, and so I just sit on my ass ALL day online...

Also, I am getting depressed over jake. Every day I love him more and more, and that is scary, I fell in love with him years ago, it has added up to be WAY too much. I can barely watch a jake movie anymore without crying at the end because I want him so badly. and, the weird thing is, I dont love him for his gorgeousness, I mean, it REALLY helps, he is too goddamn gorgeous I cant stand it, but I really love his personality. I try to find out as much about his PERSONALITY as I can, and I love it. He is really an incredible guy, in a beautiful body!!! I havent met him, but I am sure he is an amazing guy.

Waaaah *goes off to cry* I WANT JAKE!!

I know I am being a whiny annoying...person, but still, I just had to let it out.


I feel the same thing, yesterday I saw Proof again, and I cried like, 2 hours. He is the only thing that I have in my mind all the time, I love him so much. And it hurts me, because my friends and my family think that this is just a "game", but they don't know how I feel inside, and if I tell them, they won't understand. They're all day joking about this, and all I wanna do is cry. Maybe you'll think that I'm crazy, I also think that




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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #133 on: Nov 2nd, 2006, 4:26pm »

I dumped my boyfriend. Turned out he cheated on me, so that shows what kind of person I am, doesn't it?

I know how you feel poochis, I cried so much at Donnie Darko and Gladiator. *hugs*
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #134 on: Nov 2nd, 2006, 8:08pm »

Gosh, right now I'm so depressed because I'm completely in love with this absolutely unattainable guy that I've been wanting since I was 15. And it wasn't depressing till recently when he became less unattainable.
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