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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #240 on: May 17th, 2007, 11:08am »

I failed Biology though I thought I could pass it with a lot of hard work. Well, I was wrong... and now I feel like the most stupid person on this planet.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #241 on: May 17th, 2007, 5:36pm »

on May 16th, 2007, 5:10pm, eef wrote:
aww.. i only can say think about the freedom after those weeks.. the weeks will pass anyway so why don't use them and lie down later you'll be proud of yourself when you've finished something, and you'll feel better when you're free
hope you can do it *hug*


Good point. I'll try and do my best. Thanks for the support hun!

And Loose, just because you failed a class doesn't make you stupid in any way. Especially since you worked hard and did the best you could. I for one didn't give a crap about the class I failed, so I knew I was gonna blow it. That if anything is stupid in the end.
I remember once when I had written a huge paper on Nationalism. For once I was really happy with an assignment and was sure I was gonna get the top grade. But I didn't and had never been so dissapointed in my entire life. I just stood up, walked out of the classroom and started crying. But why beat yourself up about it when you already did all you could? Atleast you weren't stupid enough to NOT write/study
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« Reply #242 on: May 17th, 2007, 8:30pm »

I don't know what the hell is happening to me, sometimes i feel so good but the most of time i feel sad and i think the only reason is because i feel so lonely, i feel that no one loves me, i don't know whyyyyyyyyyy! I wish i could be like i was before
I've had a lot of nights thinking and trying to figure out my life.
Sometimes i just wanna run away... disappear, you know I just wanted to tell this to someone 'cause i feel so horrible
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #243 on: May 17th, 2007, 8:48pm »

Oh, Rob, honey!! I love you! I love you loads, don't even forget it!!
Maybe you feel that way cuz that boy you like doesn't want to start a relationship.

I think figuring this all out is just part of growing up, and being a teenager. I've been doing a lot of figuring stuff out too. Figuring out who you are, and what you want, and what other people want, and what the world is like...it's just...life.
I definetely know what you mean about wanting to run away...it would seem nice to escape, wouldn't it?

But just remember that there are LOTS of people who love you. How could we not, with a personality like the one you've got?


Don't be shy about PMing me or emaling me or iming me or calling me, if you need. Anytime. I'll answer. And I'm here for you, okay?
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #244 on: May 17th, 2007, 9:05pm »

Thank You SO MUCH Sarah and yes i think that this sadness comes from the boy.
But What I can DO? if he don't feel the same to me it's ok. but it's hard to me.
Anyway... Thanks so much Sarah
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #245 on: May 17th, 2007, 9:20pm »

Ugh, I TOTALLY know how you feel. The boy I LOVED for pretty much ALL of last year...he didn't like me in the least...I mean, he did as friends...but barely even that...we were friends, but not really close friends...but god, he was amazing. This year I found out...he's gay. My friends felt bad, but they thought it was kind of funny, like it belongs on a soap opera. I still can't believe it--HE'S GAY!
Anyways. Love is rough.
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« Reply #246 on: May 17th, 2007, 9:38pm »

Sometimes those gay boys just blend right in . No matter what the orientation, it is almost impossible for someone to have the same feeling as you, even your mate. One time one of my best friends told me that he loved me but he would never love me that way that I love him, but that doesn't mean we aren't best friends always. It took a looooooooooong time for that to sink in. I wish I could explain it better.
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« Reply #247 on: May 17th, 2007, 10:15pm »

But, God, Niko DIDN'T blend in!! He was so ECCENTRIC!! One of my friends was very suspicious of his orientation, but he didn't want to tell me. Now I wish she HAD. (As she says, "Any guy who wears coattails to school can't be straight") BUUTT I doubt I would have believed her if she had...the facts were all there in front of me...I was just blinded by luurve.

Anyways, I THINK I get what you're sayin, but let me try and clarify. You loved your best friend as a friend, but also as MORE than a friend, but he only loved you as a friend, but even though you have this...difficulty, it doesn't change your best-friend-relationship. Right??
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #248 on: May 17th, 2007, 10:16pm »

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« Reply #249 on: May 17th, 2007, 10:31pm »

That's inspiring, Rich. =]

Just like I find the George Harrison/Pattie Boyd/Eric Clapton story inspiring.

It's all inspiring. How friendship can make it through unrequited love.
Hmm...I hope I can still be friends with Niko.
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« Reply #250 on: May 17th, 2007, 10:45pm »

He also told me that if he loves someone else (and he does) that doesn't mean he can't love me 100% cuz there's not a limited amount. That's not the way it works. It takes along time to figure out how it works, tho.
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« Reply #251 on: May 17th, 2007, 10:53pm »

thats really interesting...ive never like...thought about it...you're friend is a very smart guy, rich.

actually, our priest was talking about love a couple weeks ago. She says that the kind of like...godly love is when you're not loving to get anything back from it...whether it be an actual THING, or just loving to be loved back...it's kind of hard to explain, but she said "when your cup fills up with love, and you're just overflowing with it, and you give that to someone else." what you just said reminded me of that...how people have this capacity to just keep loving.
I don't see how people who have this capacity and this amazing ability to love 100%, and still love MORE can hate on each other, and fight in wars...


A few people have been telling me I should get together with one of my best friends. Is it weird that I just CAN'T like him?? I mean, he's funny, smart, sensitive, sweet, has good taste in music, is good at track, tennis, fencing, playing guitar...is a vegetarian...and has a pretty nice bod...but I just...I can't. To me, he will ALWAYS be just...Ben. Just Ben. The gangly, nerdy, loving guy I met in 6th grade...I dunno. I had a dream about him...it was err....interesting, to say the least. I'm confused.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #252 on: May 17th, 2007, 11:17pm »

I think sometimes you love someone and then fall in love with them later, sometimes you just stay friends. Who knows why that is?

I think my friend understood long before I did that you can love someone 100% and then love someone else 100% and they can be complete but different. A little confusing, sometimes.
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« Reply #253 on: May 18th, 2007, 06:34am »

Oh... Love is complicated to say the least. It's been ages since I fancied someone though, and I really miss it. That tingly feeling, that heartache and that exploding happiness. I can't say I've been in the same situation. I've never been inlove with someone who didn't feel the same way. I mean, I've had crushes that I know hasn't been totally uninterested, but it never led anywhere, which really was his doing. Oh wait, about 2 years ago I was crushing bad on this guy who turned out to be an asshole player. We had been flirting for months and one weekend we all went to his house to party. We were having fun but then all of a sudden I spot him going at it with a girl in my class. That really broke my heart. Nothing serious, but it hurt so bad.
And why is it that all the guys I meet just wanna take you home for a night instead of asking you out in a serious way?
I've been thinking about that alot. Many of my so called "friends" have sex with guys they've only just met. And I've considered to do the same several times, but I just... can't. Am I a prude just because I can't have sex with someone I don't know? I mean, today that isn't something serious and I too keep thinking that I shouldn't hesitate and just go with it. I guess I just have more selfrespect than that. Maybe I wanna feel special or something... I don't know.
Sorry, I'm rambling, lol.
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« Reply #254 on: May 18th, 2007, 07:25am »

I don't think it makes you a prude at ALL!! One of my best friends has decided she's saving herself until AFTER SHE'S MARRIED, and I think THAT'S crazy, but waiting for someone special, who won't just hit on someone else the next day is not weird at ALL. I admire it, actually. And my friend, Laura, the one who's waiting, she's gotten like half her school to fall in love with her, and I think part of that is her confidence.

That same friend is the one who keeps pushing me to ask Ben out. She says we're teenagers, and what with horomones running wild, we're bound to fall in love with our best friends at some point. But can't that just...not happen. I'd rather live my whole life as a horomonal teenager than sacrifice my frienship with Ben.
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