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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #270 on: May 28th, 2007, 9:11pm »

Aw, Dottie, I'm so sorry!!!
But, look, I wouldn't think too much of it. I know I'VE upset my mother greatly before, saying things I didn't REALLY mean, I've just been angry...I once told my brother I hoped he'd die, and she was crying hysterically because of an incident with her brother dying...basically, his girlfriend loaned him her car, a drunk driver smashed into him on the highway, and he died. Before anyone found out, she had left a message on his machine like, "Goddamn it Kenny, where the fuck are you?? If you messed up my car...I'll fucking KILL you!!" and then, right after hearing of his death, his dad went to his house and listened to that message...of course, the girlfriend felt AWFUL..anyway...my mom locked herself in her room and cried for a long time...I felt pretty bad...and once we got in a shouting match, and I was like, "It's not fair that you HATE me," and that upset her a lot too...so if Michael is anything like me, he didn't actually mean anything by it.
I hope you feel better! Maybe you two will bond over Zodiac.
I'm sure you've already done this, but...maybe if you tell him that...you wish he'd take some meds just because you care about him and love him...it might convince him, you know? Noone wants their mother to worry about them.
Anyways, I'm here to talk, anytime. If you want to. (I probably can't offer good adivce, as I'm not a mother, and only 14...but I'll listen...)
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #271 on: May 29th, 2007, 04:19am »

on May 27th, 2007, 1:52pm, mrs.jacknasty wrote:
Aw, Jacky, I'm really sorry.
My cat died at the vet's too.
It's really hard to lose a pet.
You did the best for him that you could, though.

We're here for ya, too, okay?
PM me if you want. =]


Thank you sweetie. I still feel so weird about it, that day he was inside the whole day and he just got outside and I got up to bed then suddenly my little neighbourgirl came running in there was something wrong with him. So it still feels like it's another cat, but I know it isn't cause he won't be coming by anymore. But he's better now I guess. Thank you for your sweet words hun! It means a lot to me

xxx Jacky
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #272 on: May 29th, 2007, 1:47pm »

Thanks for your lovely comments Rich and Sarah, everythings back to normal now, and we've just come back from seeing Zodiac, (I've seen it twice before Rich ) He really, really liked it, but he did find it a bit hard to follow, so we're both looking forward to when the DVD comes out.
And yes Sarah, I know he didn't mean to upset me, I didn't blame him, I love him very much, and he is very sensitive. He's always saying he's glad he's got me for a mother because he can talk to me like a mate. I'm the first one he came out to, and I'm the only one who he'll discuss gay issues with, Maybe that's the problem,!! maybe he feels too close to me!. I don't know. All I'm relieved to know is, that he's fine now, so I am too (for the time being!!) I'm just longing for the day when he gets himself a nice boyfriend.

Jacky, I feel for you over your cat. Our cat had to be put down by the vet as well, he had cancer, so I know what it's like to lose an animal, It's very upsetting isn't it? We have another beautiful cat now, called Penny.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #273 on: May 29th, 2007, 6:15pm »

No, problem, Jacky.

And haha, Dottie! (About the boyfriend) Maybe he'll get a nice boyfriend and pick me up one while he's at it!
Tell him I like em Tall, Dark, and Handsome!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #274 on: Jun 3rd, 2007, 9:14pm »

on May 29th, 2007, 6:15pm, mrs.jacknasty wrote:
And haha, Dottie! (About the boyfriend) Maybe he'll get a nice boyfriend and pick me up one while he's at it!
Tell him I like em Tall, Dark, and Handsome!

me too, kinda like Jake
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #275 on: Jun 3rd, 2007, 9:54pm »

^mmmm, yeahh!


I'm feeling kinda blue cuz my parents are fighting a LOT again...my mom actually left the house for like an hour, then called my dad and they fought over the phone, and then she stayed out for another hour. And I can hear them, too, cuz they SHOUT. I have to shut the door, and put my music on really, really high. My dad forgot to make us dinner while my mom was gone, so I had to make it myself. I don't really know why it bothers me so much that they fight all the time, but...it does. I have a feeling they're gonna get divorced, and I wish they'd just hurry up and get it over with.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #276 on: Jun 3rd, 2007, 11:01pm »

Sry to hear about the problems at home. I had exactly the same thing, very dysfunctional. They got divorced when I was 14 (maybe already 15) and while life was hard for a while, it was probably for the best. They were never friends again. The fighting and shouting was hard to take. You don't know what to do and most times you can't exactly get up and leave (though I thought about it a few times). I hope it works out for you soon.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #277 on: Jun 4th, 2007, 7:49pm »

Thanks, Rich.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #278 on: Jun 5th, 2007, 6:55pm »

Idk if this is actually depression, but I just hate how I'm so shy all the time. Today, on the bus on the way home from school, I was sitting just 1 seat behind my crush, & I wanted to talk to him so badly (Ik, that sounds crazy). But I felt like I was having a friggin panic attack cuz I was afraid of it being awkward cuz we have no classes together & we have different groups of friends. I tell myself usually to just let your voice be heard, no matter what anyone else says. But I can never do that.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #279 on: Jun 6th, 2007, 12:13pm »

^Try to create an excuse for you two to talk. I know how awkward it can be trying to talk to someone just like that. But if you ask to borrow something or if you sometimes sit next to him and he has a band T-shirt, just something like that, it can really help. The first step is always the hardest. I wish you the best of luck, hun!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #280 on: Jun 6th, 2007, 7:18pm »

^ thanks, Nemi. I'll try that!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #281 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 6:26pm »

I was REEEAAALLLYYYYY looking foward to watching Donnie Darko Directors Cut tonight with one of my BEST friend, who I hardly get to see, cuz he goes to a different school, and we're both really busy...anyway...tonight is the last night before SEPTEMBER that we could do it...and my mom MADE ME BABYSIT MY LITTLE SISTER AND SAID HE COULDNT COME OVER!!!!! *slew of really nasty words*
I miss him. And he hasn't seen it yet, and I haven't seen Directors Cut yet...and he really wants to see it just cuz I love it so much...and it made me really happy that he valued my opinion so much....and now we CAN'T. My sister is TEN YEARS OLD...it's not like I CONSTANTLY have to STARE at her!! We could have watched it in my room w/the door open or whatever and it would have been okay...but no.

...I miss him.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #282 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 7:19pm »

Thats a pretty nasty thing to do! I mean if you have to wait untill September to watch it with him...Im sorry for you Sarah. If that movie night was already planned I think your mom made a mistake there to cancel it all Especially when you see your best friend so rarely. Its so stupid when parents do that!!! They have the right to do that kind of stuff...why? I hate it! Im sorry Sarah
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #283 on: Jun 8th, 2007, 8:24pm »

Thanks, Kiara.

Well....I hadn't told my mom about the plans...We'd (Ben and I) been talking about it for like a week, though.
And my mom IS paying me to babysit...and she told me last night, and I was like, well, can I have Ben over? And she's like, no, I am paying you to spend time with your sister!

But he just asked out his first girlfriend! (and she likes him too!) I hate how we're like...growing up without each other.

But my mom was like, you JUST saw him at your birthday party on Saturday! Which is true, but I can't remember the last time I saw him before that...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #284 on: Jun 9th, 2007, 11:44pm »

MY PARENTS ARE RUINING MY LIFE AGAIN!!!!
I HATE THEM SO MUCH!!!
IT'S NOT FREAKING FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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