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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #315 on: Jun 23rd, 2007, 08:46am »

Yeah, StartledKitten, I feel like that a lot too. I don't have a job and hate my college. I don't know how long I'll be there or anything and sometimes nothing makes sense.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #316 on: Jun 23rd, 2007, 2:12pm »

on Jun 23rd, 2007, 12:38am, ihjtalk wrote:
yeah, a little OT but the one here is this Sunday, I'll be at the Cubs-Sox game, tho
@Jimmy do u have Pride Parade there? at AMS, maybe?


Yep, Amsterdam has a Gay Pride Festival...in August I believe...it's always BIG here in Holland. Every year they have the 'Canal Parade' where all gay people (who are almost all dressed in something 'airy' if you catch my drift..) tour Amsterdam via the canals on boats...last year we had about 500.000 people visiting Gay Pride...I've never visited it though...Don't like the image that festival has got...it's a bit too much imo...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #317 on: Jun 23rd, 2007, 7:07pm »

on Jun 23rd, 2007, 2:12pm, Jimmy wrote:
Yep, Amsterdam has a Gay Pride Festival...in August I believe...it's always BIG here in Holland. Every year they have the 'Canal Parade' where all gay people (who are almost all dressed in something 'airy' if you catch my drift..) tour Amsterdam via the canals on boats...last year we had about 500.000 people visiting Gay Pride...I've never visited it though...Don't like the image that festival has got...it's a bit too much imo...

ik what u mean, parade is over the top here too, i've been there so i don't need to go - it's long and sometimes embarassing and the most outrageous guys get 10 or 15 seconds on the news and so that is what everyone thinks of us.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #318 on: Jun 23rd, 2007, 11:10pm »

^that must be SO annoying.
Then again, there's a total stereotype about teenage girls, too.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #319 on: Jun 24th, 2007, 12:08am »

We just have a Gay Pride Fest today in Columbus, OH~
I'm so stressed out from work because I'm baring so much responsibilities that I'm not supposed to bare! (with my low wage )
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #320 on: Jun 25th, 2007, 5:38pm »

@KitKat: sounds like a conversation I just had with my boss. I think it will be better but it is not a conversation you can have with every boss, I think
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #321 on: Jun 26th, 2007, 01:47am »

a friend is really down and i don't know why and it is dragging me down too and i don't know why that is either.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #322 on: Jun 26th, 2007, 07:19am »

on Jun 21st, 2007, 6:29pm, StartledKitten wrote:
I just graduated, Bre and I know the what you mean. It's only been like 2 weeks, but I think what I feared is about to happen... That I'm going into some sorta lifecrisis now when everything in my life is unsertain. I don't have a job and I wanna start studying next year but got no plans for what or where. And that is a whole freakin' year. Am I just gonna walk around here at home like a ghost? I'm gonna miss my past life (school and friends) to death. That is what I've known since I was 6 years old, 13 f*cking years... And now... this is the first big change in my life, graduation and not having a clue where to go. Feels like I've been shoved out of the secure school life out into a big desert with huge questions flying around.
And tonight, Ive had this anxiety inside me... I'm sensitive to begin with, way to sensitive than what is healthy. And this just ain't good for me, having all this freetime to just... think. I think to much, and, get depressed.
I honestly have no idea what I'm talking about.
I just feel so, I don't know... out of it.
I feel alone in a big world of nothing where I no longer have the people I had around most of the time. School life was a rock in life, something sertain surounded by guidelines and wonderful people. But now it's all gone. All I see is that desert.
Oh well, we'll see where this takes me. Life is pretty interesting, after all...

Sorry for rambling, hehe.


I know how you feel. I graduated a few years ago, I'm done with my second year of university now and the thing is, school is all I've been doing for my whole life, basically. I have a job that's not too great and I can't help but feel like next year, when I'm done with school, I'll have nowhere to go. I don't want to go into full-time employement with what I have even though it's probably a good job for a person my age. And technically, if I wanna be what I wanna be, I should go study abroad to get some more experience, but that would mean leaving everything and everyone behind because I know my bf can't just drop everything and come with me - he has a band and they're really getting better and better and bigger and of course he can't leave that. So either I can walk around at home and do nothing and I know that won't bring me closer to my goal or I can basically leave everyone I care about for a year. And I can't leave everyone, y'know, I just can't. I have a hard time being without my bf and my family for two weeks! A year would just be like torture. So I really don't know what to do after next year and I just feel so out of sorts right now, and my bf has tried helping me and all he says is I should do what I love and go after my dream but I don't think he understands that we'd seriously be apart for a whole year. If I come back and it's not the same anymore I'll hate myself for leaving in the first place and I don't want that but at the same time I don't want to miss out on my goal either just because I was too scared.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #323 on: Jun 26th, 2007, 11:30am »

@ nemi: thatīs hard stuff I guess you just have to do what feels most right. If youīre not ready to go yet, donīt do it. Give it some time...you still have it. Do you have to go abroad to get more experience? There is no way you can do it in your country and city? If itīs so then you evetually just have to decide! I know itīs a boring thing to say but...thatīs pretty much all you can do. Iīve always done what I feel good in my heart...but I donīt know what you wanna do..sorry this is...I guess more confusing..
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #324 on: Jun 26th, 2007, 11:43am »

Aw, no, it's actually really helpful.
The thing is I'm studying wit some of the best teachers from Scandinavia right now and the school I'm in is really prestigeous and I'm already making bi-weekly trips to Denmark for some extra tutoring. I know there are amazing teachers in the UK and US and Italy's got some good credibility (though I don't know italian so that'd be hard) so those are the two options I'm looking at right now. It'd probably be an amazing experience and I would've done it in a heartbeat if I could just bare moving away from my bf. Hm, at least I've got one more year to think it over.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #325 on: Jun 26th, 2007, 1:25pm »

nice that you found it helpful It is difficult but good luck nemi in everything!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #326 on: Jun 27th, 2007, 12:09am »

so i am kinda disappointed that some of my posts (public and private) have gotten no responses, as in the number zero. I understand the public ones cuz not everybody reads everything as there is so much here. The pms however are a mystery. I guess we all feel we can post a lot of personal stuff here cuz it is mostly to people we will never meet and don't know us. On the other hand, I guess I thought i did make some real friends here but maybe not, perhaps only one or two, perhaps not. Now i am not sure why i post in some of these threads, maybe just to spill it and not carry it around. The pms i send for a reason, either silly things like pm challenge and i always got a response to those, or to friends and i have not gotten a response lately to most of those. kinda sad. For a couple of u, I'll just wait, but for one or two others...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #327 on: Jun 27th, 2007, 12:30am »

on Jun 27th, 2007, 12:09am, ihjtalk wrote:
so i am kinda disappointed that some of my posts (public and private) have gotten no responses, as in the number zero. I understand the public ones cuz not everybody reads everything as there is so much here. The pms however are a mystery. I guess we all feel we can post a lot of personal stuff here cuz it is mostly to people we will never meet and don't know us. On the other hand, I guess I thought i did make some real friends here but maybe not, perhaps only one or two, perhaps not. Now i am not sure why i post in some of these threads, maybe just to spill it and not carry it around. The pms i send for a reason, either silly things like pm challenge and i always got a response to those, or to friends and i have not gotten a response lately to most of those. kinda sad. For a couple of u, I'll just wait, but for one or two others...


awe i am so sorry hun.....some people can be fake but you just got to ignore them..im sorry no one is responding to your posts and im sorry your friend was down i hope everything turned out ok...Just keep hope in those real friends you have it will get better.....btw i love your siggy!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #328 on: Jun 27th, 2007, 12:45am »

^thanks for nice thoughts, guess i miscalculated some.
the sig is from Rudy. He left and it reminds me of the stuff he made for me. I'd switch them around but i really like that one. I hope he comes back or at least can get online some day (long story and i left it here or in another thread earlier in the month).
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #329 on: Jun 27th, 2007, 12:50am »

awe sweetie no problem...me and my friend Zoe are opening a thread on things you miss the most in the game section check it out maybe you can vent a lil on your friend..i know you already did in a few but it may help...whenever you need someone to talk to im here pm whenever im always on lol
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