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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #450 on: Nov 19th, 2007, 6:05pm »

My life is a total mess right now. Doctors found a lump on my rib and they think it's not good, they have to get it out this thursday and I'm really scared. I act like I'm doing fine and everything is ok, but I'm just really a total mess and a wreck. On work, with friends and on myspace I act like nothing is wrong, but I'm scared of the results...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #451 on: Nov 19th, 2007, 6:08pm »

on Nov 19th, 2007, 6:05pm, JackyG wrote:
My life is a total mess right now. Doctors found a lump on my rib and they think it's not good, they have to get it out this thursday and I'm really scared. I act like I'm doing fine and everything is ok, but I'm just really a total mess and a wreck. On work, with friends and on myspace I act like nothing is wrong, but I'm scared of the results...


wow that sucks . it's normal to be scared i guess will cross fingers for you everything will be ok
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #452 on: Nov 20th, 2007, 5:15pm »

Aww, Jacky...I'm sorry!

I hope it turns out well! But you know, I'm sure it probably will....my mom had this lumpy stuff in her uterus, so they had to scrape it out, and she got really scared, but it ws just condensed tissue and clotted blood and stuff, which apparantly happens to old people alll the time... (though she wasn't too pleased about having her uterus scraped ) Anyway, the point of that little rant was that I think you'll be okay.

Do you watch Grey's Anatomy, btw? Cuz I would just imagine it was George removing the lump.

But maybe...it would help to tell some of your closer friends that you're scared? It always helps me to tell my friends stuff, even if it's hard to start, it's easier at the end.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #453 on: Nov 21st, 2007, 6:02pm »

on Nov 20th, 2007, 5:15pm, Sarah! wrote:
Do you watch Grey's Anatomy, btw? Cuz I would just imagine it was George removing the lump.

But maybe...it would help to tell some of your closer friends that you're scared? It always helps me to tell my friends stuff, even if it's hard to start, it's easier at the end.


Doc George? I don't think I wanna go out of that hospital again lol... I'm will fell of those stairs on perpose lol

No, thank you for your sweet words. All of you! I hope like everyone says that it's nothing. But I'll keep u updated.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #454 on: Nov 22nd, 2007, 02:58am »

Aww, Jacky, I'm sorry. I hope everything is okay! I'm always thinking of you. And try not to worry too much, I'm sure everything will be fine... these things usually are.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #455 on: Nov 23rd, 2007, 9:10pm »

Hey everyone. Well I got to the hospital thursday but couldn't reply sooner. They did some tests and echoscopie... but everything's ok! They cut the lump out but it's nothing big and serious. Thank you all for those amazing sweet words that got me through! Love you all!

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« Reply #456 on: Nov 23rd, 2007, 9:33pm »

thats great news jacky! glad to hear your ok!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #457 on: Nov 23rd, 2007, 10:19pm »

Yay!! I knew it would be fine, but hey...congrats! You got through it, and I'm sure it took a lot of guts! Personally, I hate hospitals, and the thought of surgery makes me want to vomit and cry, in that order.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #458 on: Nov 24th, 2007, 03:20am »

Oh thank goodness everything's okay, Jacky!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #459 on: Nov 24th, 2007, 07:08am »

Tonight Kevin Rudd became the new prime minister of Australia and Howard had to hand over leadership.

i know that probably means nothing to lots of you but i'm really upset

basically, my generation is screwed, in my opinion

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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #460 on: Nov 27th, 2007, 12:06pm »

I feel so depressed right now.. But it lasts for one year now.. but right now I am really bad.. I can't see any sense of my life.. I hate my school.. my classmates don't like me just because I seem weird and I am a quite and calm person.. my friends don't go out with me a lot anymore my parents don't care about me a lot.. You might think I am overstating but I don't think so.. yeah the truth is that in other hand I am very weak and sensitive person... but I just can't take this anymore.. I am doing everyday the same I have no big experience I am living in virtual world most of the time.. I just would like to die.. I don't believe this will ever get better.. if you think so why? when? what should happen that would change my life? well I think if I changed the school and started to be more opened in the new school it would help me to make some friends and so.. but I don't think parents will let me change it..

Oh god

I just need love from somebody but I can't see or feel of anyone.. I feel sooo lonely.. Does anybody in here feel like me??
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #461 on: Nov 27th, 2007, 1:03pm »

Dasha.... I have to say to you this: Im feeling you hon! Im telling you, I could have written your message!! and Im not overstating at all.
Im sorry but I cant tell you when its going to be better or what should be happening that it gets better...cause honestly and unfortunately I dont know answers to these questions...ouh god....I hope I dont make you more depressed with my post. Still one thing I do know:
There is at least one person who has felt and is still feeling like you and knows (belive it or not) what youre saying!!!
Even though Im writing to you in this virtual Jake world we have here...I hope you could think my message is REAL.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #462 on: Nov 27th, 2007, 2:32pm »

on Nov 27th, 2007, 1:03pm, kiara wrote:
Dasha.... I have to say to you this: Im feeling you hon! Im telling you, I could have written your message!! and Im not overstating at all.
Im sorry but I cant tell you when its going to be better or what should be happening that it gets better...cause honestly and unfortunately I dont know answers to these questions...ouh god....I hope I dont make you more depressed with my post. Still one thing I do know:
There is at least one person who has felt and is still feeling like you and knows (belive it or not) what youre saying!!!
Even though Im writing to you in this virtual Jake world we have here...I hope you could think my message is REAL.


My questions how when and why should it get better were meant ironic or smth.. Because people use to say: "Don't worry it will get better" .. you know?

So you feel exactly the same? How old are you?

I am much better now.. maybe because I was veery hungry when I was writing that reply.. but as I said it lasts 1 year already so yeah I still think the same as I said..

And thank you so much for feeling me <3 I am glad for this.. and for your reaction
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #463 on: Nov 27th, 2007, 3:08pm »

on Nov 27th, 2007, 12:06pm, Dasha wrote:
I feel so depressed right now.. But it lasts for one year now.. but right now I am really bad.. I can't see any sense of my life.. I hate my school.. my classmates don't like me just because I seem weird and I am a quite and calm person.. my friends don't go out with me a lot anymore my parents don't care about me a lot.. You might think I am overstating but I don't think so.. yeah the truth is that in other hand I am very weak and sensitive person... but I just can't take this anymore.. I am doing everyday the same I have no big experience I am living in virtual world most of the time.. I just would like to die.. I don't believe this will ever get better.. if you think so why? when? what should happen that would change my life? well I think if I changed the school and started to be more opened in the new school it would help me to make some friends and so.. but I don't think parents will let me change it..

Oh god

I just need love from somebody but I can't see or feel of anyone.. I feel sooo lonely.. Does anybody in here feel like me??


I know how you must have felt when you wrote that post, Dasha! I'm feeling the same way from time to time and this is true. In my opinion and maybe not just in mine, my life is sooo boring and nothing big happens and then I think of some of my friends who move on with their lives and I feel like I'm still standing on the same point as many weeks or even years before.
I know it is easier to say than to do but you should never give up hope, hun, because you're NEVER alone, even when you're absolutely desperate. I know these words are just words and I don't know if they helped you but life is a fight, every day, and we have to try to concentrate on the bright things in life.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #464 on: Nov 27th, 2007, 3:14pm »

Aww Dasha hun... I can understand you have the feeling of wanting to start all over, but... who says you can't become more open at your current school right away? If you feel like your friends have gotten the wrong idea about you, why not try and show them the real you?
I used to be like you, my so called friends thought of me as different just because I didn't wanna do the stuff they wanted to. But in the contrary, I had a wonderful mom and my own interests at home that made me happy and feel I could cope with the rest of the world.

And, just over the past year I've learned how important dreams and plans for the future are. Ask yourself what you would like to do in the future? What are your dreams? That's what I did, and it took me quite some time. But when I came to my conclusions it made me more determine and gave me a feeling of having a purpose, instead of just sitting home not knowing anything really.
Just having a goal, or just a dream in your mind, and thinking about how wonderful it will be when you finally get there can be uplifting itself.

So maybe you could start figure out how you could make a change? What can you do to make yourself happy in your current situation? And when you know, work to make it happen. I know It's not easy to either find out or work for it, but atleast by trying it could lead you on to the right track?

Good luck sweetie!
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