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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #600 on: May 21st, 2008, 6:44pm »

in my chemistry class today, some students were given awards for doing well in the class, but I didn't get one. & I was doing really well before, but now my grade is down 10 POINTS cuz of a couple bad quiz grades. & I want to take AP Chem next year, but in order to take the class, u have to have an above 90% average in regular chem. I DON'T wanna take physics next year. I've got another test next week, & I'm so nervous that I'm not gonna be able to raise my grade to above a 90 in time.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #601 on: May 22nd, 2008, 1:35pm »

^ Aww, all I have to say is do your best and don't think about getting to the 90. Because if you just think about it all the time you won't be able to focus on how to get there. I'm sure you will and if you need any help at all I'd be glad to help you out!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #602 on: May 25th, 2008, 06:43am »

I haven´t been able to sleep very well and my weekend has been a total mess so far I´m feeling down right now...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #603 on: May 26th, 2008, 02:16am »

^tired will make u feel down, sometimes I can't sleep and the next day i'm fine

right now I just couldn't begin to tell u, prolly not as bad as i think
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #604 on: Jun 8th, 2008, 9:15pm »

I think the guy I like no longer likes me. Not like like.. but just like.. haha
He told me we were supposed to hang out today and he hasn't called. Either he forgot or he doesn't want to hang out with me..

Either way it's depressing.

I don't want to like him anymore, I don't even like him.
If that makes sense.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #605 on: Jun 13th, 2008, 11:29pm »

sometimes there are not enough words to explain, this time there were too many words, i think
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #606 on: Jun 20th, 2008, 5:44pm »

I feel really shitty..

I've been a fan of Jake 4 years back.. it all started with our class seeing TDAT at the movies.. and i just got hooked. That summer i spended alot of time, almost obsessing with Jake. I dissed a guy i liked.. which i got to regret later on when i started liking him again. Made me think of how all this had started to affect my life.

Then came a period when Jake wasnt an obsession and i still tried to be a good fan but reality made me realize that after all he is an actor whith thousand of other girls like me. Then all of these other things started to happen in my life and time passed. On new years eve i met this guy who im dating now and have been for soon to be 6 months. That means ive been really busy with new friends and stuff like that.

Now im starting to get worried. I still feel like...
Hes not jake, he will never be. Is that something that'll fuck things up for me again or have i finally accepted this simple fact?

Jake is.. I mean. I cant ever find someone who can even be compared to him.. i feel really rediculous even saying that ´but its true!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #607 on: Jun 20th, 2008, 11:22pm »

^ok, so there are lots of boys that feel the same way too. I do mean about Jake. You can be a good fan but you can't compare everyone to Jake or anyone else for that matter. Each is an individual, each has his own gift, accept that and celebrate your bf
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #608 on: Jun 21st, 2008, 09:57am »

My best friend just got a new boyfriend, & now she's basically ditching me & everyone else in the group. They can't go ANYWHERE without going together- the other day, me & her had an exam that ended at 11am or so. Well, she just HAD to stay behind & wait for her boyfriend to finish his math exam!(he had 2 exams that day, one in the morning, one in the afternoon, which ended around 3)

and yesterday, after we finished the morning exam, she said she wanted to see my new car, & I was waiting for her. Then I see her walking to her bus with the guy, totally nonchalantly. Ik boyfriends don't last forever, but for now she could at least make time for her friends while still dating.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #609 on: Jun 21st, 2008, 10:24am »

on Jun 21st, 2008, 09:57am, LaurenaKaJakefan wrote:
My best friend just got a new boyfriend, & now she's basically ditching me & everyone else in the group. They can't go ANYWHERE without going together- the other day, me & her had an exam that ended at 11am or so. Well, she just HAD to stay behind & wait for her boyfriend to finish his math exam!(he had 2 exams that day, one in the morning, one in the afternoon, which ended around 3)

and yesterday, after we finished the morning exam, she said she wanted to see my new car, & I was waiting for her. Then I see her walking to her bus with the guy, totally nonchalantly. Ik boyfriends don't last forever, but for now she could at least make time for her friends while still dating.



Ive had a similar situation. Actually we were 5 really good friends, all singles. And then when the first girl got a boyfriend we were all pissed and left her alone for a while, i was pissed the most i thought a u should never diss ure true friends for a guy. And then two of the others got boyfriends and I got even more pissed cuz they started doing the same thing, i got so pissed and i pwromised myselft never to let a guy enter my life and tell ME what to do. Never.

As soon as i got one myself i realized it is not about whos dissing who and etc. My friends tell me the exact same thing now that i told them earlier. But since we all are good friends, we've learned to compromise and be understanding. Its actually a situation like that wich could really show who's ure real friend.

My advice: If ure really good friends with this person, be there support her, tell her how u feel but dont be a bitch about it. If she's just a "hang around" fuck it she's not worth it.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #610 on: Jun 21st, 2008, 6:02pm »

i think i 'm really in the middle of what they call 'quarterlife crisis'

over not even 2 weeks i've to do my final presentation, if i do that well , get a good grade i'm finished with school. graduated.
Thats wonderfull of course, it's the very last thing i have to do, they already approved my paper (presentation is about the same subject) I've enough time to fix it and i hate presentations but i know i can do it. Even if it's not good this time i'll get another change, its just a matter of time till i'm graduated. So thats not the problem..

The problem is that i'm thinking i've done 4 years study for what .. i never really wanted to do this or knew what i should become after i finished this.
I've always heard i can get a job really soon because there's plenty of work for people who did the same. But i'm not sure if i WANT it.
when i have a diploma i know i can DO it , but i can also clean toillets.. that doesn't mean i want to do it. know what i mean.

I want to do something nice , i don't need the kick ass carrier, become a manager or something, don't want to be a millionair as long as i can do something fun and get enough money to eat and do things i like. I'm not the ' material girl' but everyone needs money and something to do right.

But i have no idea what i want. I only know i don't want to get stuck at an office.
I hear songs about following your dreams and stuff.. but wat is my dream?!
it feels like i really need to know that soon before the opportunities are flying away and i'm 'old' and stucked somewhere.

When i'm finished i really need a job, just because i can't sit home (@ my parents) and do nothing. How am i gonna find it and choose the right thing? i'm afraid i get a job and find something better to do after 2 months. And i need to move on, i can't live for ever at my parents either, but where do i have to go ..

if i'm graduated my parents are gonna give me a holiday as a present, i can go anywhere i want. And I can't even decide that.
And i don't really have friends to go with on holiday, don't wanna get lost in the middle of nowhere on my own either

Growing up sucks

ps: i'm 23 now and study digital communication
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #611 on: Jun 21st, 2008, 10:03pm »

^yes, growing up sucks, u have to make lots of decisions - important ones. here's the good news, if u decide to do something and it is the wrong thing, it is easier to change while u r young. u have ur parents to fall back on and u can't do that later. when u r younger, ppl r eager to give u a chance if u have a degree and seem smart. they also know, you don't have yrs and yrs of experience soooo they aren't going to risk a big salary trying u out. In other words, it is easier to move around while u r young, do it in your 20's. test drive life til u find what fits your life. don't stress out, it will work out.

i skipped quarterlife crisis, just forgot to do it but now i think i will work on midlife crisis, rly. i did move around in my 20's, i just forgot to pick something and stay with it. now i feel like everything/everyone is passing me by. I guess i am a little jealous of my teenage friends who have it all in front of them. i wish i knew how to shine a light on the right things for them. i see one in particular and hold my breath sometimes that things will be all right for him, then regret they weren't all right for me. is it ok to cry for loss of innocence? not just mine that is.
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #612 on: Jun 22nd, 2008, 4:24pm »

on Jun 21st, 2008, 10:24am, Naima wrote:
Ive had a similar situation. Actually we were 5 really good friends, all singles. And then when the first girl got a boyfriend we were all pissed and left her alone for a while, i was pissed the most i thought a u should never diss ure true friends for a guy. And then two of the others got boyfriends and I got even more pissed cuz they started doing the same thing, i got so pissed and i pwromised myselft never to let a guy enter my life and tell ME what to do. Never.

As soon as i got one myself i realized it is not about whos dissing who and etc. My friends tell me the exact same thing now that i told them earlier. But since we all are good friends, we've learned to compromise and be understanding. Its actually a situation like that wich could really show who's ure real friend.

My advice: If ure really good friends with this person, be there support her, tell her how u feel but dont be a bitch about it. If she's just a "hang around" fuck it she's not worth it.


^ thanks for the advice! U're right- I shouldn't be dissing her about it just cuz she has a boyfriend & I don't. We hung out together this weekend, anyway, so that was cool...
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #613 on: Jun 27th, 2008, 9:02pm »

More then a month ago, I broke two teeth in my upper jaw... which held a fixed bridge. I was eating chicken and I accidentally bit on a bone. So I went to the dentist who was going to fix my (rather expensive) problem. Don't worry, he said, we will close that gap by using implants.
Almost every second day I went to my dentist. Each time I came back with more toothache. At the moment, I would like to smack my head against the wall... as painkillers don't work anymore. I should be in bed right now (it's almost 3:00 am here) but I can't sleep. Can't even close my mouth without pain. Tomorrow (Saturday that is), is my following appointment. And I'm afraid he's not sure anymore what the final result will be after the many treatments.
I will turn to booze now to make this pain more bearable. Arrrg!
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Re: Feeling depressed?
« Reply #614 on: Jun 28th, 2008, 01:25am »

^awwwww, sry to hear, hope they fix it soon

my problem is insignificant in comparison, can only say I've been waiting to hear from a friend and he has disappointed me a little (ok, more than a little)
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